I’m in my backyard, in a city, there’s a train out under the bluffs. I love that lonesome whistle, I love it too much. If I wait awhile, and I think I will, another one will roll on through. There are crickets for the in-between, since it’s a summer night.
My father died. Life is short, the trail is long. You could build cairns to find your way back home. You could put them close-together. All hope and a wish for some homecoming… you’re not sure of anything, much.
My father was a champion of men. (He was? He is?) Well whatever it was or is: like that. Yes, I’m certain.
I’m more of him than of anyone. I’m more of him now than I even ever was before, but I ain’t no champion… just his kid.
He has actual blood that is still alive.
He shined so. I miss him.
His departure timed like the perfect clock he made me– the one I sold at the yard sale long ago to the stranger who said I would later regret it. She said something about shame, too, something forgettable. That stranger had a father, once.
My blood leaks out when the moon is full: tick tock tick. He made me like that, I can’t take the credit. Thank you. Thank you.
I regret nothing.
We did our best is all. The way it goes; the way of things; appropriate; supposed-to; like how the ocean swells at night– the worst.
Death is anticlimactic relief, openings, weights lifting or shifting. But grief, you old grey junkyard dog…
Grief is a bully and a friend. A friend who is there for you even when. When you wonder who you’d like to call and the answer is nobody, it calls you up. Grief ropes you in and ties you down and frees you up like a fast romance that might last.
Grief teaches you this: You can walk through this world like you don’t have skin: raw and warm and wet and glistening, reflecting everything.